When parents separate, their own pain and conflict can sometimes overshadow the needs of their children. In the midst of anger or resentment, it may feel tempting to seek validation from a son or daughter. Some parents might ask, “Who would you rather live with?” or...
Divorce
3 ways journaling can help you manage emotions during divorce
Divorce can trigger a mix of emotions such as sadness, anger, relief and uncertainty, all of which can feel overwhelming. Finding healthy ways to process these feelings is key to helping ensure emotional balance during such a transitional period. One seemingly simple...
Legal separation in New Hampshire: Rights, process and impact
When couples in New Hampshire face marital challenges but divorce is not an option, legal separation offers a structured alternative. It allows spouses to live apart while resolving key issues like property division, child custody and financial support without ending...
3 approaches to addressing a business during divorce
Owning a business can put a professional in the driver's seat for their career. They can choose the clients they work with and even control their own compensation. People who run their own businesses can hire their friends and family. The company that they run may...
How QDROs help to limit retirement losses during divorce
When professionals have 401(k)s and similar tax-deferred accounts, they may need to take extra care during the property division process of a divorce. Tax-deferred retirement savings accounts exist to provide a nest egg for those without regular income. Dividing an...
Men who seek alimony may still face some challenges
Divorcing spouses are far more likely to both earn an income than they were 50 years ago when men were the primary “breadwinners” in the family. In many cases, women earn as much, if not more, than their husbands do. This means men are more frequently seeking and...
Is a gray divorce more or less complicated?
It’s often referred to as a gray divorce when someone is around 50 years old or older. For instance, divorce rates have been going up for those who are over 45, and they’ve tripled for those who are over 65. Many of these cases are called gray divorces—an important...
Who are you without the spouse role?
Divorce does not just end a relationship. For many, it brings a deep sense of loss—of routine, connection and sometimes, of self. When someone has been a partner for years, it is easy to forget who they were before the marriage. After a divorce, many people are left...
How a prenuptial agreement can make divorce easier
A prenuptial agreement, or prenup, is a legal document that couples sign before getting married. It outlines how assets, debts, and other financial matters will be handled if the marriage ends. In Massachusetts, prenups are valid as long as they are fair, signed...
3 concerns for business owners planning to divorce
Business owners often make years of personal sacrifices and significant investments in the organizations they operate. A business may be a source of personal pride and can provide a regular source of income. The company could be vulnerable if the owner decides to...

